Relationship Pattern Analysis

Something feels
one-sided. But is it, really?

Answer 10 questions and get a structured pattern assessment of transactional and one-sided dynamics in your relationship.

PrivateNo account needed
2–5 min10 focused questions
AnalyticalPatterns, not diagnosis

What you get

Informational only. Not a clinical diagnosis of any condition.

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Answer honestly. This is pattern analysis — not proof.

0 of 10 answered
Question 1 of 10
The effort in the relationship feels consistently one-sided — I give significantly more than I receive.
Question 2 of 10
They are warm and engaged primarily when they need something from me.
Question 3 of 10
Their interest in me fluctuates significantly — attentive at times, absent or cold at others.
Question 4 of 10
My needs, feelings, or problems are regularly minimised, dismissed, or ignored.
Question 5 of 10
They seem to engage with me mainly when it is convenient or beneficial for them.
Question 6 of 10
When I need support, they are often unavailable, disinterested, or make it about themselves.
Question 7 of 10
After interactions I often feel drained, taken for granted, or vaguely used.
Question 8 of 10
They regularly have reasons why they cannot meet my basic needs or follow through on things.
Question 9 of 10
They treat me noticeably differently when others are around versus when we are alone.
Question 10 of 10
I am significantly more invested in this relationship than they appear to be.