Relationship Pattern Analysis

They're there.
But not really there.

Answer 10 questions and get a structured assessment of emotional unavailability patterns in your relationship.

PrivateNo account needed
2–5 min10 focused questions
AnalyticalPatterns, not diagnosis

What you get

Informational only. Not a clinical diagnosis of any condition.

Start the assessment

Answer honestly. This is pattern analysis — not proof.

0 of 10 answered
Question 1 of 10
My partner avoids deep or emotionally honest conversations.
Question 2 of 10
My partner rarely opens up about how they're truly feeling.
Question 3 of 10
When I try to connect emotionally, they pull back, change the subject, or shut down.
Question 4 of 10
I feel lonely even when we are together.
Question 5 of 10
My partner minimises or dismisses my emotional needs.
Question 6 of 10
Physical closeness exists, but emotional intimacy feels absent.
Question 7 of 10
During serious conversations, they shut down, deflect, or get defensive.
Question 8 of 10
I feel like I do all the emotional work in this relationship.
Question 9 of 10
They seem more comfortable with practical matters than emotional ones.
Question 10 of 10
Conversations about the future of our relationship are avoided or kept vague.